Weird Bush debate quote

"I think about Missy Johnson, fantastic young lady I met in Charlotte, N.C.... Her husband, P.J., got killed.. You know, it's hard work to try to love her as best I can knowing full well that the decision I made caused her, her loved one to be in harm's way." (i.e., to be dead.) (But he's going to try to love her anyway. Such a guy!)